7 Kindness Activities for Kids to Learn Compassion

Kindness is what makes the world go around. Bold statement, right? Consider this quote from poet, Maya Angelou, “I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, will forget what you did but will never forget how you made them feel.” And then think of how true that statement is in your own life. Whether it was good or bad, the moments when others make us feel something are the moments you remember most. A simple smile, small acts of compassion or kind words can make or break a stranger’s day.

Plus, research shows that by performing repeated acts of kindness consistently, you can retrain your brain to be more positive. And the more positive your mindset is, the more productive, happy and creative you become.

It makes sense, then, that as a parent you want your kids to be kind above all other qualities. You want to raise thoughtful, good, gracious, productive and kind-hearted individuals. Those qualities alone, have the power to bring happiness, joy and success to any person. And not just to your child but to those around him, too. When someone carries out a single act of kindness, three people end up benefiting from it. The person doing the act benefits, the person receiving does and anyone who witnesses it as well. From that standpoint, kind acts have the potential to spread faster than a virus. Can you think of a better virus to infect the world with than kindness? Here’s why it’s important to teach kindness to kids as a starting point to bettering the world around us.

Why Should We Teach Kids About Kindness?

At the very basic level, teaching kindness to young children is the right thing to do. But it goes deeper than that. The world in which we live is very fast-paced. Children now can have (and get) what they want, almost instantaneously. There’s no delayed gratification or sense of “I worked hard for this, and now it’s mine.” It’s tempting to want to give your children everything. But most parents would admit that giving your children everything has a limit. It’s not at the expense of being unaware of how the rest of the world lives or the right way to treat others.

Another reason why it’s important to teach kindness to children? Social and emotional skills are just as important (if not more important) to nurture as fine motor, language and math skills. Kindness can also release more serotonin in the brain, which plays an important role with learning, memory, mood, sleep, health and digestion. It provides children (and adults) with a heightened sense of well-being, increases energy and gives wonderful feelings of positivity and self-worth.

“Adolescents who identify their primary motive as helping others are three times happier than those who lack altruistic motivation. Similarly, teens who are giving are also happier and more active, involve, excited and engaged than their less engaged counterparts,” said Dr. Christine Carter, Ph.D.

Is It Even Possible to Help Kids Learn Kindness?

From an early age, kids are a sponge to the activities, behaviors and communication styles of adults. Children pay close attention to what adults say and how they act. It makes sense that helping a child develop empathy is an important part of being a responsible caretaker. Because being a good role model is a much of a teacher as anything, having compassion for others and treating their peers with kindness is a skill that doesn’t necessarily have to be taught. In bringing awareness to situations that require compassion and empathy, children can begin to view others in a different light.

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7 Kindness Activities for Kids to Learn Compassion

There are many activities and fun ways that encourage a “kindness mindset” and can help kids with hands-on social emotional learning. These kindness activities and acts of kindness can help children interact and engage with the world around them in a compassionate and empathetic way. Don't wait until world kindness day when these activities can be done right now.

1. Fill your bucket with kindness cards

Whether this activity is done in the classroom or at home, the idea is for kids to think about how great it feels when someone is kind to them. Pass out kindness cards or sticky notes to your kids or a small group of students and have them write an example down where something nice was done for them, and how it made them feel. Collect the cards, read them out loud and reiterate how kindness is a direct correlation to feeling happy. Show your kids that if they practice kindness, the reward is another kindness card in the "bucket." “Bucket filling” is a system that encourages kids to act independently to fill each other’s invisible buckets by doing kind acts. At the end of the day ask your child, "how's your bucket today?"

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2. Random acts of kindness challenge

A challenge can motivate and excite kids toward completing tasks and creating positive habits. Use either a checklist, a bulletin board or a calendar and print out a copy for your child to keep track with. Then challenge your little ones to meet a goal of doing kind things for others regularly. Your children get to check mark an item off the list or cross off a day on the calendar when they recognize something nice someone has done for them, or when they spread kindness by trying to surprise others with a random act of kindness. Hold discussions at home where everyone thinks of acts of kindness ideas they can do for others.

3. Hold mini lessons on kindness

Lessons about kindness don’t have to be long, but it is good to keep discussing it as a family and incorporate the lessons into kids activities. Make it easy to teach empathy and compassion with the monthly Cultivate Kindness Box. Centered around a new cause or charity each month, get a kindness starter kit complete with one “kindness activity” to support the featured cause, plus 1-2 special gift items and plenty of printables, like kindness party planning with free printables to help your kids cultivate kindness in others.

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6. Be of service to others

One of the best ways to learn to be kind and grateful is by being in service to others. The Kindness Crate aims to create direct connections to causes that matter by sending a bi-monthly subscription box that delivers original educational content and family community service activities centered around everything from homelessness and diversity, to anti-bullying initiatives and ending hunger. Your kids will learn that positive messages help others and the positive reinforcement makes them want to keep being of service.

7. Teach children about causes they can support

Turn your child into a global kid-izen by inspiring kindness and doing good as a way of life through various causes. For Purpose Kids, winner of the 2019 Parents’ Choice Award Subscription Box, is a quarterly box that’s designed to teach kids that being kind is the best way to live. Delivering books and interactive activities that use multi-cultural characters, children learn to help and value people, animals, and the environment. Each themed box focuses on a different local or global cause to help engage kids and encourage them that doing good should become a habit of everyday life.