The Best Breakup Care Packages & Gifts for Girls and Guys (2021)

Everyone from Frankie Valli & The Four Seasons to Karen Carpenter and Gloria Estefan have sung this popular sentiment: “Breaking up is hard to do” -- and we couldn't agree more! Whether the feeling’s mutual or it ends in a broken heart, the end of a relationship is a time of grief and mourning for what could have been.

What's a good breakup gift for him or for her?

The period surrounding a breakup is full of emotional ups and downs, and requires plenty of self-care and TLC. Whether you’re going through it yourself, or you’re watching your BFF or any loved one suffering the aftermath, a monthly gift box can act as an instant pick-me-up to show him or her that this time of heartache will eventually pass. Resist the urge to say move on, and instead show up with a recurring custom gift set that makes them feel seen and acts as a monthly reminder that care and love are out there in the world!

What are the best breakup care packages?

1. SinglesSwag


Price: Starts at $22.50/month

About the Box: Cheer up after a bad breakup with SinglesSwag, a monthly subscription that's all about celebrating the single life. Join in the choir of single ladies sharing their positive experiences of learning to love themselves first, even after heartbreak! With monthly boxes available in 2 sizes, send an assortment of pampering and self-love goodies, including bestselling books, all-natural body care, face masks and tasty treats.

Shipping: Ships worldwide from the U.S. on or before the 1st day of every month

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2. Smartass and Sass


Price: Starts at $13.95/month

About the Box: Taking a break from the traditional rom-com and TV show binge to have a good laugh is one of the best ways to lighten a heavy mood. If you're searching for a funny breakup gift, look no further than Smartass and Sass. Loved by hundreds of subscribers, this monthly box is available in 3 options that work with any budget, bringing a themed dose of sass with snarky graphic tees, hand-selected artisan products, and badass accessories.

Shipping: Ships to select countries from the U.S. on the 18th of every month

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3. eCreamery Ice Cream & Gelato


Price: Starts at $56.67/month

About the Box: An essential component of any good breakup survival kit is ice cream, and the tastier it is, the better you'll feel! That's where the eCreamery Ice Cream & Gelato subscription comes in. Guaranteed to be decadently rich and creamy, and made from only the finest ingredients, every delivery brings an assortment of 4 delicious pints of gourmet, small-batch ice cream -- the perfect post-breakup companion.

Shipping: Only ships within the U.S. to arrive by the last Friday of the month

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4. Modern Skyn Apothecary


Price: Starts at $25.50/month

About the Box: Modern Skyn Apothecary is a DIY gift idea that delivers the ultimate at-home spa day. A great just-because-you're-you gift to cheer a loved one up after a dating slump or relationship fail, each box is packed with all-natural skincare products, packaged in sustainable glass containers. Bringing at least $100 worth of high-quality handcrafted body products, this subscription treats mind, body, and soul to some much-needed relaxation.

Shipping: Ships worldwide from the U.S. 4-6 days after we receive your selected item list, with future boxes shipping between the last week and the first week of the month

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5. The Adults & Crafts Crate


Price: Starts at $30.00/month

About the Box: Since busy hands make for quiet minds, send a gift basket that's all about hands-on crafting with the Adults & Crafts Crate. Whether they're a pro at DIY projects or have never crafted in their life, each box is designed to let creativity soar, while bringing the opportunity to explore new craft techniques. This open-and-go, all-inclusive craft kit, brings all that's needed to make a new home decor project every month.

Shipping: Ships worldwide from the U.S. around the 25th each month

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6. The Mental Wealth Box - Mental Health, Self-Care Subscription Box


Price: Starts at $44.95/month

About the Box: Depression, obsessive thoughts and grief -- when it comes to breakups, there's a whole lot of mental health issues that can come along with it, making The Mental Wealth Box a great care package idea. Gift the necessary tools and strategies to tackle trying times with a monthly box that brings mental health information and activities, along with self-care essentials that act as a perfect reminder to stop, breathe, and focus on the now.

Shipping: Ships within the U.S. on the 15th of the month

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7. Shaker & Spoon Cocktail Club


Price: Starts at $40.00/month

About the Box: Shaker & Spoon Cocktail Club is a great breakup day gift for your best bro, because he can either drown his sorrows or toast to a brighter future. Ok, we're not suggesting that a stiff drink is the best way to cure breakup blues, but it doesn't hurt either! This monthly box will transform him into a master mixologist, delivering all the mixers, syrups and garnishes needed to serve up delicious craft cocktails.

Shipping: Ships within the U.S. beginning in the week of the 6th

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8. Phivi Artisanal Desserts Box


Price: Starts at $30.42/month

About the Box: If Valentine's Day is an especially difficult period after a breakup, skip the grocery store chocolate bar and treat him to a buffet of fresh-baked desserts with the Phivi Artisanal Desserts Box. Whether he's still in the denial stage or he's moved on to acceptance, this monthly box serves up the opportunity to indulge in seasonally flavored fresh cookies, cakes, cake pops and macarons made from the finest ingredients available.

Shipping: Ships within the U.S. throughout the month on specified dates

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9. Cure Crate


Price: Starts at $56.67/month

About the Box: Gifting him The New Crate by Cure Crate is a great way to ensure that his mood stays even and he gets a full night's sleep, even after a difficult breakup. When it comes to CBD products, there isn't a one-size-fits-all kind of fix. So, he'll start by taking a detailed quiz that outlines his needs and preferences, and then the pros will curate a selection of 4-5 products to meet his specific needs.

Shipping: Ships within the U.S. within 48 hours of ordering, and then on the Monday closest to your join date

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10. TheraBox


Price: Starts at $30.99/month

About the Box: Desperate times call for love and support, of course! TheraBox is the perfect breakup box to say 'at least I love you,' and shower him with happy healing goodies. Now he can make self-care a part of his normal routine with a box that comes brimming with calming organic bath products, reinvigorating essential oil blends, journals, sweet snacks and all-around positive vibes.

Shipping: Ships worldwide from the U.S. between the 24th-29th every month

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11. He Time by My Me Time Box- DECEMBER BOX


Price: Starts at $58.75/quarter

About the Box: Looking for a breakup gift box that will give him a gentle nudge to get back into the swing of things? Start with He Time a self-care box designed for men by My Me Time Box. Every box packs in premium grooming necessities and lifestyle essentials that will have him looking and feeling his best, including skincare products, aromatherapy, EDC items, gourmet treats and more.

Shipping: Ships worldwide from the U.S. on the 10th of March, June, Sept and Dec

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12. Monthly Box


Price: Starts at $45.00/month

About the Box: A simple way to let him know that you're there for him whenever he needs a shoulder to lean on, the monthly All He Loves Box is filled with practical goodies and gadgets that you know he'll use and love. Surprise him with a gift box filled with over $70 of cool products that are handpicked to provide an instant upgrade to every man's life, like quality electronics, leather goods and pocket tools.

Shipping: Ships to the U.S. and Canada between the 5th-20th of the month

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13. The ManBox


Price: Starts at $11.90/month

About the Box: Not much can mend the broken hearted, but tools, survival gear and tactical gadgets can be a welcome distraction, at the very least. Designed exclusively for men, The ManBox is a unique monthly club that sends a curated selection of practical items. A grab bag fit for any man, he'll unbox everything from sunglasses and watches to pocket knives and playing cards.

Shipping: Ships to the U.S. and Canada by the 1st of the following month, and then around the 21st of future months

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14. Craftsman Crate


Price: Starts at $30.77/month

About the Box: After the end of a relationship, the pining and scrolling through old memories can become a routine habit, making the Craftsman Crate the perfect gift for occupying idle time. This DIY gift box will introduce him to a wide range of crafting techniques with a monthly project. Whether it's woodworking or mosaic making, each all-inclusive kit comes with all the supplies, materials, tools and instructions he'll need.

Shipping: Ships worldwide from the U.S. on or about the 9th of each month

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